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When should we take engagement portraits?

Timing your session around save the dates, seasons, and schedules

   
Denver Athletic Club photo by Denver Colorado Photographer Justin Hankins
J&M's Engagement Portrait Session

The Save the Date Factor

First and foremost, it depends on whether you need the photos for your save the dates! Most wedding experts suggest you send your save the dates six months before your wedding. Furthermore, you should bump them back to eight months or longer if:

  • A.) You’re planning a destination wedding
  • B.) You’re getting married around a major holiday
  • C.) You’re getting married on a day other than Saturday (Sun-Fri)

Therefore, if you need your engagement portraits for your save the dates, it’s wise to get them done at least 7-9 months before your wedding to give your photographer time to get them ready for you.

Not worried about save the dates?

If you’re not bound by a save the date deadline, consider one of two approaches: either the same season as your wedding –or– the opposite season from your wedding...

Example 1: The same season as your wedding

Choosing the same season as your wedding will provide a consistent look across both your engagement portraits and your wedding photos. It can also allow you to work in similar themes or design elements between the two. For instance: engagement photos at a Christmas tree farm for a Christmastime wedding, or engagement portraits along the beach for a nautical-themed wedding.

Water Table photo by Virginia Beach Virginia Photographer Justin Hankins
the West Village photo by New York NY Photographer Justin Hankins
Home photo by Harbor Springs Michigan Photographer Justin Hankins

Example 2: The opposite season from your wedding

On the other hand, selecting the opposite season from your wedding will offer you some contrast. For instance: wintery engagement portraits for a summertime wedding or springtime cherry blossom engagement portraits for an autumn wedding.

One tip: give yourselves plenty of time

Keep in mind that weekends usually book up early with weddings. So trying to book last-minute engagement portraits on a Saturday in June might be challenging. I can’t speak for all photographers, but in the middle of busy wedding season, I can typically only accommodate weekday engagement sessions or Sundays. If weekends are a must due to your work schedules, give yourselves some buffer time to pin down a viable date.

Got it… Next question: what should I wear?

Excellent question. Here are some tips for what to wear for engagement portraits.

The Tridge photo by Midland Michigan Photographer Justin Hankins

Last Updated

December 29, 2025

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